gomod: update embedded-postgres fork for automatic shutdown (sourcegr…

…aph#48015)

Our fork now will shutdown postgres if the parent process dies. This is
needed for Sourcegraph App.

Test Plan: USE_EMBEDDED_POSTGRESQL=1 sg start app + ctrl-c

go.mod

@@ -260,7 +260,10 @@ require (
 )
 
 replace (
- github.com/fergusstrange/embedded-postgres => github.com/sourcegraph/embedded-postgres v1.19.1-0.20230113234230-bb62ad58a1e1
+ // We maintain a potentially long-term fork of embedded-postgres for
+ // Sourcegraph App. We add features like unix sockets. If this replace
+ // directive still exists in 2024, lets consider hard forking.
+ github.com/fergusstrange/embedded-postgres => github.com/sourcegraph/embedded-postgres v1.19.1-0.20230222065424-1cc470c429e1
 
  // As of https://github.com/grpc-ecosystem/go-grpc-middleware/blob/7ac0846398432dee083fd8bc4ad7abacf8147ff2/providers/openmetrics/go.mod#L7,
  // the latest release of the gRPC Prometheus middleware depends on a version of go-grpc-middleware that is two years old, and

go.sum

@@ -2072,8 +2072,8 @@ github.com/sourcegraph/alertmanager v0.21.1-0.20211110092431-863f5b1ee51b h1:Mly
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 github.com/sourcegraph/conc v0.1.0 h1:9GeYVmWWa1jeOq3zGq17m10d9pjYZpiGTj/N4hQFl58=
 github.com/sourcegraph/conc v0.1.0/go.mod h1:sEXGtKMpRbfGhShfObhgMyxDpdu/5ABGrzSGYaigx5A=
-github.com/sourcegraph/embedded-postgres v1.19.1-0.20230113234230-bb62ad58a1e1 h1:NbyS/m5kyBsaxynmY18st03pL9ZSOdEEC/B839vNNRA=
-github.com/sourcegraph/embedded-postgres v1.19.1-0.20230113234230-bb62ad58a1e1/go.mod h1:0B+3bPsMvcNgR9nN+bdM2x9YaNYDnf3ksUqYp1OAub0=
+github.com/sourcegraph/embedded-postgres v1.19.1-0.20230222065424-1cc470c429e1 h1:ZK8uyI3diAyKDlmQx6OioXa0uEwyPMkiCXBVRRlX2uc=
+github.com/sourcegraph/embedded-postgres v1.19.1-0.20230222065424-1cc470c429e1/go.mod h1:0B+3bPsMvcNgR9nN+bdM2x9YaNYDnf3ksUqYp1OAub0=
 github.com/sourcegraph/go-ctags v0.0.0-20230111110657-c27675da7f71 h1:tsWE3F3StWvnwLnC4JWb0zX0UHY9GULQtu/aoQvLJvI=
 github.com/sourcegraph/go-ctags v0.0.0-20230111110657-c27675da7f71/go.mod h1:ZYjpRXoJrRlxjU9ZfpaUKJkk62AjhJPffN3rlw2aqxM=
 github.com/sourcegraph/go-diff v0.5.1/go.mod h1:j2dHj3m8aZgQO8lMTcTnBcXkRRRqi34cd2MNlA9u1mE=