Patch arrow for Windows

[mehrdadn]

Why are these changes needed?

Fixes some compatibility issues with Arrow on Windows.

Related issue number

#631

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[pcmoritz]

This looks good to me! After we get it fully working and tested, let's upstream the changes to arrow too :)

[mehrdadn]

Yeah hopefully. I'm not entirely sure what the correct way to handle static and dynamic linking is unfortunately so for some of these we'd probably want to upstream after we've figured that out.