fix(db-postgres): error on delete having where that require joins

[DanRibbens]

Description

When using deleteOne with a complex query, the join tables would not be included in the query.

This change reduces code duplication with a new function for postgres selectDistinct and calls it from deleteOne, update, and findMany.

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