fix: don't set socket on client before init

Refs: nodejs#1633

lib/client.js

@@ -1074,8 +1074,6 @@ async function connect (client) {
 
  assert(socket)
 
- client[kSocket] = socket
-
  socket[kNoRef] = false
  socket[kWriting] = false
  socket[kReset] = false
@@ -1091,6 +1089,8 @@ async function connect (client) {
  .on('end', onSocketEnd)
  .on('close', onSocketClose)
 
+ client[kSocket] = socket
+
  if (channels.connected.hasSubscribers) {
  channels.connected.publish({
  connectParams: {
@@ -1176,7 +1176,7 @@ function _resume (client, sync) {
 
  const socket = client[kSocket]
 
- if (socket) {
+ if (socket && !socket.destroyed) {
  if (client[kSize] === 0) {
  if (!socket[kNoRef] && socket.unref) {
  socket.unref()
@@ -1243,7 +1243,7 @@ function _resume (client, sync) {
 
  if (!socket) {
  connect(client)
- continue
+ return
  }
 
  if (socket.destroyed || socket[kWriting] || socket[kReset] || socket[kBlocking]) {