chore: bump grpc to v1.65.0

[mikeee]

Description

Bumps grpc to address a CVE unpatched in previous releases (using x/net > 0.22.0 mitigates this already)
https://github.com/grpc/grpc-go/releases/tag/v1.65.0

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• Code compiles correctly
• Created/updated tests
• Unit tests passing
• End-to-end tests passing
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