Add exception check for numpy reshape

[sxjscience]

Description

Try to add exception to avoid error-message downgrade issues reported in #16102

Checklist

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Comments

• If this change is a backward incompatible change, why must this change be made.
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[sxjscience]

@samskalicky @zachgk

[samskalicky]

LGTM, thanks for the quick fix!

[anirudh2290]

This looks good. having said that this still wont help with the related issue if it is only happening on macos since we dont have tests for macos currently on the CI.