[Enhancement] add jemalloc memory tracker

[murphyatwork]

Why I'm doing:

Jemalloc metadata is a footprint of jemalloc, which cannot be used by starrocks process. It should be considered into the ProcessMemTracker, otherwise the memory usage would exceed the specified mem_limit. For some edge cases, it can exceed 10GB, which is significant.

And also, there would be some fragmentation in jemalloc, which means not all of memory can be used for allocation, we need to consider them into the MemTracker.

What I'm doing:

1. Add a jemalloc_metadata MemTracker and update according to stats.metadata from jemalloc
2. Add a jemalloc_fragmentation MemTracker and set it to 0.3 * (rss-allocated-metadata)
3. Add a new configuration in be: jemalloc_fragmentation_ratio, whose default value is 0.3
4. Put them into the ProcessMemTracker to reserve some memory

Function configurations:

• enable_jemalloc_memory_tracker, whether enable this feature, default true
• jemalloc_fragmentation_ratio, the supposed fragmentation ratio of jemalloc

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

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file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
🔵	be/src/runtime/exec_env.h	2	2	100.00%	[]
🔵	be/src/runtime/exec_env.cpp	4	4	100.00%	[]
🔵	be/src/common/daemon.cpp	45	45	100.00%	[]

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@Mergifyio backport branch-3.3

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@Mergifyio backport branch-3.2

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backport branch-3.3

✅ Backports have been created

• #51437 [Enhancement] add jemalloc memory tracker (backport #51382) has been created for branch branch-3.3

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backport branch-3.2

✅ Backports have been created

• #51438 [Enhancement] add jemalloc memory tracker (backport #51382) has been created for branch branch-3.2