chore: make push in dependency order

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Overview

Some make push fixes and cleanups.

Test Plan

• Test this with an OT-2
• Test this with an OT-3

Changelog

• When doing a top-level make push or make push-ot3, push things in order from dependencies to dependents. Notably, we need to push server-utils before pushing robot-server and system-server.
• Fix an apparent bug where make -C notify-server push would restart opentrons-robot-server instead of opentrons-notify-server.
• Be consistent about restart vs. no-restart choices between the OT-2 and OT-3.

Review requests

Risk assessment

Low. Changes are just to dev tooling.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #12977 (3040de0) into edge (7322ac8) will decrease coverage by 0.39%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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- Coverage   72.87%   72.48%   -0.39%     
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  Files        2351     1544     -807     
  Lines       64461    50565   -13896     
  Branches     7190     3203    -3987     
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- Hits        46973    36653   -10320     
+ Misses      15805    13428    -2377     
+ Partials     1683      484    -1199     

Flag	Coverage Δ
app	43.88% <ø> (-27.69%)	⬇️
components	66.53% <ø> (ø)
g-code-testing	96.44% <ø> (ø)
hardware	59.18% <ø> (+0.12%)	⬆️
notify-server	89.13% <ø> (ø)
shared-data	76.64% <ø> (+0.01%)	⬆️
system-server	96.07% <ø> (ø)
update-server	65.65% <ø> (ø)
usb-bridge	81.35% <ø> (ø)

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