refactor: move define_into_tonic_status to common-error

[shuiyisong]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

As title suggests. This enables us to remove servers from operator's dep list.

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• I have written the necessary rustdoc comments.
• I have added the necessary unit tests and integration tests.
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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 73.68421% with 10 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 85.20%. Comparing base (4e5dd1e) to head (264f068).

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[killme2008]

LGTM