feat: metaclient builder options with role

[fengjiachun]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

There are too many options in MetaClient, but the configurations for the same roles when building MetaClient are almost identical. Therefore, it would be better to provide default options for different roles.

Closes #3660

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Attention: Patch coverage is 88.88889% with 2 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 85.65%. Comparing base (c91132b) to head (45b2a25).
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