Cleanup and harmonize Carla build

[berndgassmann]

Ensure that actually only the unreal sysroot is deployed for all C as well C++ compilations including dependencies. That ensures the server is NOT anymore linked against the system glibc (which is in Ubuntu22.04 incompatible with the Unreal one). As a consequence no local clang installation required anymore to build under Linux.

Harmonized naming split into client/server (instead of libcpp and libstdcpp) to ensure nothing mixed up (and there were things mixed up before!)

Refactor C# Unreal build using CarlaRules base class to provide common functionality. Fixing windows build without ROS2 and added intitial windows build with ROS2

Restrict to one DDS-Domain-Participant for carla-server (Fixes bind address already in use exception on with ROS2).

Due to continued segfaults in reallocations of MallocBinned2 in conjunction with ROS2 enforce using AnsiMalloc calls under Linux (see https://forums.unrealengine.com/t/dealing-with-allocator-mismatches-with-external-libraries/1416830)

Use C++20 to allow for more robust struct initialization (see https://en.cppreference.com/w/cpp/language/aggregate_initialization), added Eigen C++20 patches and required CARLA changes to cope with C++20 compilation errors
Be aware: This change requires the Unreal PR
(https://github.com/CarlaUnreal/UnrealEngine/pull/23)

Move forward to g++-13

Minors:

• Fix make clean call
• Update osm2odr commit with build fix (Fix build with Unreal sysroot sumo#6)
• Update ad-rss to 4.4.5 (supports boost 1.80)
• Fix windows install scripts and forward arguments for building libcarla
• Adapt codeformat.py to python3 using clang-format-14

Description

Fixes #

Where has this been tested?

• Platform(s): ...
  Ubuntu 22.04, 20.04, compilation on Windows (some time ago on the other PR Rework ros2 support #7229)

tested build of:

• make launch
• make launch ARGS="--ros2"
• make check
• make PythonAPI
• make PythonAPI.rss
• make package ARGS="--ros2"

Additional tests: launched carla from installed package and verified basic ros2 is working:

• Added ROS2=True to DefaultGame.ini
• Started carla-server and ensured /clock is published
• Started manual_control.py and ensured that some sensor data is sent out
  (Note: This last step only worked without "bind failed expection" after DdsDomainParticipant became a singleton in carla-server)

• Python version(s): ... 3.10
• Unreal Engine version(s): ... 4.26

Possible Drawbacks

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