Rizz Game: Test Your Rizz
Wondering just how much rizz you actually have? Calculate your rizz score and find out whether you've reached peak rizzler status with our interactive game.
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How to Develop A+ Rizz
Be a little mysterious. An air of mystery can be a really good thing in romance. Imagine your crush seeing you reading a classic novel quietly at the coffee shop. Then you look out the window mysteriously, thinking deep thoughts. A cool, aloof aura can be pretty powerful stuff! Some studies find that people are more attracted to you when they’re not quite sure how you feel about them—so if you act a little aloof, you might seem cooler to your crush.
- Still, it’s also possible to be too mysterious. If you pretend your crush doesn’t exist, they might think you’re a bit of a jerk. It’s all about balance! To learn how to cultivate an air of mystery without seeming mean, take a look at How to Be Mysterious to Attract People.
Be curious. Ask questions, show interest, and focus on things you find interesting about the other person’s life. While you’re having a conversation, try not to indulge in obsessive thoughts about whether or not they like you. Instead, think about what genuinely fascinates you about the person you’re talking to. And then, follow that fire. By projecting a real, genuine interest in what another person has to say, you come off as way more charming than you would with a pickup line.
- Let’s say that the person you’re talking to plays soccer. What do you find interesting about that? You might be curious about their position, their history with the sport, or why they chose soccer over other sports. Then, when you think of something, ask them about it! Check out this list of great get-to-know-you questions to get started.
Project warmth. Guess what? People consistently rate agreeableness and extraversion as more attractive than good looks. That means regardless of your appearance, the best way to seem attractive to others is by being kind, sunny, positive, and encouraging. There’s a ton of dating advice out there that contradicts this finding, but according to science, it’s bad advice. You’ll be way more likely to impress your crush with silliness, kindness, and friendliness than you would by being rude.
- For some people though, this can be hard to do! Even if you’re not a natural extrovert, don’t worry. There are plenty of ways to project warmth and kindness, even without being the loudest person in the room. To get started, check out How to Be Friendly.
Fake it 'til you make it. People always say that confidence is attractive—and they’re right. But how can you project confidence if you just don’t feel it? Here’s an insider tip: focus on consistently doing three easy little behaviors that make you appear more confident to others. Hold eye contact when you talk to people, force yourself not to fidget, and speak slowly. If you master these three small habits, you’ll come across as more confident in the moment, and at the same time, you’ll slowly rewire your thoughts to be more confident, too. It’s a win-win!
- And confidence truly can be a game-changer when it comes to attracting your crush. For a more in-depth guide to cultivating confidence, check out How to Build Self-Confidence.
Use humor and intelligence to your advantage. Again, if you think looks are everything, science doesn’t agree with you! People consistently say that being funny and smart are super important elements of attraction. To improve your rizz levels, focus on sharpening your brain and your wit (Read books on topics you’re passionate about! Stay updated on the funniest internet trends!). If you already feel like your humor and intelligence are on point, work on making sure other people can see those qualities when you interact with them.
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