The “as soon as” method is what I used with my kids. I waited if I wanted them to do something or they forgot to do their chores. Rather than micromanaging or nagging, I would wait until they asked to do something like go to the pool or something, and then would say sure, as soon as you’re done your chores; or something along those lines. It’s teaching kids that they have to do what they need to do before they can do what they want to do. It’s about self-discipline and delayed gratification. Not