[BugFix] fix shaded partition when manually added (backport #52894)

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Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

The SingleItemListPartitionDesc was used to represent single-column list partition, like PARTITION BY LIST(c).
But somehow it's misused in many places so current single-column list partition may also use the MultiItem.
This inconsistency can lead to serious bugs like the query result would be incorrect.

For example, if using both INSERT VALUES and ADD PARTITION to create partitions, the second form may be shaded during partition pruning.

The plan to fix it:

1. Step one is to trying to convert SingleItem to MultiItem when adding new partitions if it's already a MultiItem
2. Step two Remove the SingleItem and change all metadata when reloading metadata

This PR focus on the step one.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #52894 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com). ## Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

The SingleItemListPartitionDesc was used to represent single-column list partition, like PARTITION BY LIST(c).
But somehow it's misused in many places so current single-column list partition may also use the MultiItem.
This inconsistency can lead to serious bugs like the query result would be incorrect.

For example, if using both INSERT VALUES and ADD PARTITION to create partitions, the second form may be shaded during partition pruning.

The plan to fix it:

1. Step one is to trying to convert SingleItem to MultiItem when adding new partitions if it's already a MultiItem
2. Step two Remove the SingleItem and change all metadata when reloading metadata

This PR focus on the step one.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/catalog/ListPartitionInfo.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/ast/AddPartitionClause.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/ast/SingleItemListPartitionDesc.java
	new file:   test/sql/test_list_partition/R/test_add_list_partition
	new file:   test/sql/test_list_partition/T/test_add_list_partition

Unmerged paths:
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	both modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/analyzer/AlterTableClauseVisitor.java

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@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr